Taking off the “badge of busy”….

Taking off the “badge of busy”….

But it’s a good busy…

Do you ever run into a friend or acquaintance and when you ask “How are you?  How are things going?”, the response is “busy”.  Or “good busy”.  So, what does this really mean?  In our manic society that always seems time deprived, busy has become the new sign of success.  If I’m busy, I must be productive.  If I say I’m not busy, I’ll appear lazy and unmotivated.  But is any of that really accurate?  With many of my clients, and myself, we get lazy with our language and “busy” has become a catch-all phrase like “fine” or “good”.    With our multiple responsibilities and often hectic lives, this phrase has become a shield and a barrier to deeper connection and an intentional life.  As animals, we are hardwired for connection and we are most successful when we are engaged and involved with others – packs, tribes, clans, communities, etc.  But the “busy” label keeps others at a distance and keeps us from that connection.

What the heck are we so busy doing?

There is no doubt that we are over-scheduled and our lives are very dissimilar to preceding generations.  But it’s also true that we have more leisure time than ever before.  In so many ways, our lives are so much easier than our ancestors and yet we act as if we are busy tilling the land, protecting the homestead and eking out a living – all not true.   The question becomes:  what am I busy doing?  The answer is at the heart of intentional living – taking off “the badge of busy” and starting to rewrite the story of your life.  Are you busy with classes, education, volunteering and vocational work?  Great – that level of being busy should feel productive and satisfying.  Are you “busy” with social media, Netflix and shopping that leaves you dissatisfied and unhappy?   What can you do less of or differently?

If your default status is “busy” but you are unfulfilled, stressed and unhappy, it’s time for an internal audit.  Revisit your priorities and start living intentionally.

What’s the real value of your time?

What’s the real value of your time?

What are you spending your time on now?

As an organizing coach, I help my clients rewrite the stories of their lives.  We move from frazzled and overwhelmed to living a more calm, intentional life.  To be organized and find more space, more time and more joy, time management is key.  While there are lots of tools for time management like calendar systems, timers and “smart” electronics, first determine what is the real value of your time.  Most of us don’t know the true value of our time so we waste it on unnecessary tasks that consume too much time, effort and resources.  Break down a “typical” day into time chunks – morning, work/school, after school/work, evening, etc.  Within those segments, pinpoint the tasks that you need to complete in each block.   What tasks can you do best?  Are you maximizing your time and effort or is there room for improvement?  What tasks can be done better by someone else?

What can I outsource?

Most of us have a strong skill set that makes us effective and productive.  And we all muddle through some tasks that we can outsource to make the balance of our time more productive and less stressed.  Do you like to cook but hate to grocery shop?  Transition the grocery shopping to another family member or use one of the many food delivery services available.  Do you love Fido but getting in a long walk just doesn’t fit in your schedule most mornings?   Give that task to a household member with more time and flexibility.  Also, some folks spend their days walking dogs! Hire a professional dog walker or find a neighbor to hire or even better, barter services with.

There are a few tasks that we must do ourselves so figure out the best way to get it done.  And know that there is someone, somewhere who will gladly take over the tasks that don’t fit in your schedule or skill set.  Work to your strength and hire to your weakness.  Welcome to the new service economy!

Where can I hide this?

Where can I hide this?

Finding good hiding spots…

Do you think finding good hiding spots is all about playing “hide and seek” or having a great Easter egg hunt?  In organizing, good hiding spots mean effective space management.  Maximizing your existing storage comes in many forms.  Closet organizing, purging unneeded and unused items and choosing effective storage are important.  But there is another great organizing solution clients often overlook – the “hiding” spot.  Good hiding spots are under the bed, behind a door or even behind a floor length curtain.  These are ideal because they are not high traffic areas but are easily accessible.  Also, there are storage solutions designed for these hidden spots.  Under the bed storage bins and bags and hanging shoe holders are low cost but highly effective. So, what should I be “hiding”?

Hey, what’s in that hiding spot?

Hiding spots are ideal for items that we don’t want or need out in the open.  Under bed storage is perfect for out of season clothing or bedding – close at hand when needed but not taking up valuable closet and drawer space.  Do you have young children with lots of legos or dolls?  Use that under-bed space for plastic bins for small toy and doll storage.  Bins on wheels are easy for them to pull out and use and equally easy to clean up and store out of sight.  I also recommend creating an “electronics” bin for manuals, boxes, and warranties.  These are often needed for repairs and upgrades but don’t need to be in your everyday files.  Fill a plastic box with all the electronics paraphernalia and slide it under the bed – organized, easy to access and out of sight.  Install a clear plastic shoe hanger on the back of your door and fill it up!   Behind full-length curtains in my office, I store a paper recycling bin and my shredder – you are really limited only by your imagination.

Shoes are an obvious choice for a hanging shoe holder but there is a multitude of options. Fill the clear shoe pockets with small toys, hair accessories and products, health and beauty items, dog care items, scarves – the possibilities are endless….

 

Distractions, Distractions…How’s your adult ADD working?

Distractions, Distractions…How’s your adult ADD working?

Minimizing Distractions

What is your biggest distraction?  Is it the phone, email, social media, constant interruptions from others?  Managing and minimizing distractions are key elements of time management and staying organized.  Whether you are trying to focus on a project at work or complete a task at home, constant distractions slow us down significantly.  Are you familiar with the term “activation energy”?  Activation energy is the minimum amount of energy that must be available for a chemical reaction to occur.  The principal is the same for the energy needed to get a project completed.  To start a project, we need a certain amount of “energy” but once we get started, it is much easier to continue to completion.  It’s the stopping and restarting continuously that slows our progress and expands our timeline.  So how do I minimize distractions to keep my activation energy going?

“Do not disturb”

To keep focused on a project or task, you need to minimize your distractions by employing a “do not disturb” mentality.  Set the timer on your phone for a reasonable length of time – 60 or 90 minutes.  Then one by one, shut off or down those distractions.  Turn the ringer off on your phone or set to “do not disturb” – don’t worry, the timer alarm will still go off.  Minimize the taskbar which shows that a new email has come in.  Place your phone upside down so you won’t see texts or notifications coming in.  Are you concerned you might miss an “urgent” message? Set your phone to alarm after 20 or 30 minutes for a quick peek to be sure there is nothing that warrants your immediate attention.  Are you in open office space and can’t close your door for a short period of time to work?  Move into a conference room or put on earbuds to block out distractions.

You will be more productive and less stressed when you manage your time and distractions.  Figure out what solutions work best for you to filter out your distractions and keep your activation energy going.

 

Medicine Cabinet Mayhem       

Medicine Cabinet Mayhem       

How did it get this way?

Quick, name the one space in your home that is REALLY disorganized and in need of some serious decluttering.  Many clients say basement, playroom or closets and yes, these are often trouble spots in the home.  But one of the most important spaces that often gets overlooked is the bathroom medicine cabinet.  For many of us, it’s a space we use multiple times a day but we rarely give it a thought unless we need something specific.  On a daily basis, we rummage around for the item we need and then shove it back in and close the door.  In theory, we know that there’s a lot of “stuff” lurking in there but we don’t take the time to sort it out.  While a medicine cabinet may seem like a low organizing priority, it really needs to be prioritized both for ease of use and most importantly, for safety.

How the heck old IS this, anyway?

The first thing to address in a medicine cabinet are expiration dates.  Dates are there for a reason so always err on the side of caution.  Pharmaceuticals should NOT be stored in a bathroom medicine cabinet – heat and moisture break down the components faster.  All narcotics should be kept in a locked space – not in the easy access of a medicine cabinet.  Throw out any OTC medications that are expired and take any narcotics to your local police department for proper destruction – DO NOT flush these down the toilet.  These chemicals seep into the ground and drinking water and cause real harm.   Once you’ve eliminated the unneeded, unused and expired medications, determine what else should be put back in.  Containerize like items in Ziploc bags or small acrylic containers.  First aid items like bandages and ointments fit perfectly in a small bag.  Group items together – shaving, hair products, dental items – inside the cabinet for easy access.

Do you have duplicates of the same item?  Store the unopened item in another spot to leave the “prime real estate” of the medicine cabinet free.  Purge, containerize and give your items a home – your everyday routine will thank you….

Where the heck is that thing??

Where the heck is that thing??

Now, where did I put that?

The average American spends 40 minutes a day trying to find something that is misplaced.  That’s almost 5 hours a week that could be better spent on other priorities.  The top offenders in the “where is it?” category are wallet, car keys, purse and mobile phone.  So, how do you create an organizing solution so that you never waste that time again?  First, create a “home” for an item.  My wallet, when not in my pocket, “lives” on my bedroom bureau.  In the house, my purse hangs on a hook in the mudroom.  I hang my car keys on the key rack in the mudroom when I enter the house.  I carry my mobile phone in my pocket or in the house, it lives on the “charging shelf” in the kitchen.  By creating a routine and a system, we have a go-to spot for our things, resulting in much less lost time searching for lost items.  But what if I forgot to hang up my keys or my wallet fell out of my pocket, then what?

Ooops, there it is…

Have you ever tried to walk out of the house only to find that your wallet or keys is not where they should be? Or misplace your cellphone in the house and you can’t call it because it’s dead or on silent?  While I’m generally not a “product person”, I recently found a product that I recommend to everyoneTile is a small electronic piece that you can add to your keychain (the Tile Mate) and slip into a wallet, purse or adhere to many electronics (Tile Slim).  Once you download the Tile app to your smart phone, you can “ring” the Tile to find the missing item.  If the cellphone is the item you’ve misplaced, you can use a computer or any other Tile.  Out of earshot?  The Tile will show up on a map, showing you exactly where the item is.

Losing keys or a wallet and scrambling around to find our missing items is stressful and time-consuming.  Creating a “home” for your items is a great Plan A and Tile is a great Plan B+.

 

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